It's New Year's Eve and the air is abuzz with resolutions, toasts to the 2013 that was, and cheers to the 2014 that will be. Everyone vows to change for the better somehow, being fitter, friendlier, and more frugal. People swear they'll live in the moment and love those around them. And while all of these vows are good and fine, people forget that the only thing which will be happening at midnight is a change on the calendar. You aren't suddenly going to get the motivation to go to the gym every day or the money to travel around the world. Life is not suddenly going to get better or easier tonight at midnight.
Resolutions themselves are not bad things. They remind us to focus on the things that are important, and that is one of the best gifts you can give to yourself. The problem arises when we forget that goals and resolutions require a little work every day, not just a promise on the first day of a new year. So, if it makes you happy, make resolutions. Make them attainable and measurable THEN WORK TOWARD THEM. All year, not just for a week or so.
This time of year, we also hear a lot of things along the lines of "2013 was great, but 2014 will be the best year yet!". Maybe. But here's the thing: if you're living your life to the fullest, every year will be the best year yet. Each year will bring new highs, making you happier than you ever thought to be possible. You will travel to new places, meet new people, make new friends. You will try new things, find new obsessions. You'll probably find a new favorite song, favorite movie, favorite book in the upcoming year. The new year will bring new victories and joys and excitements. You'll finish the year and think "wow, that was fun."
On the flip side, every year brings new lows. You'll probably cry in the next year. You'll be mad and confused and upset and lost to new degrees. But these experiences are so important to the year. These are the things that will make you stronger and will hopefully make you a better person. When you look back on the year, you'll remember the pain, but hopefully the joy will match it, if not eclipse it.
So, Happy New Year, everybody. I hope it's a great one.